"If there were a 'user's manual' for lesbians, this would be it. Baeli attempts to clarify the questions and provide the answers to some of the most pressing issues that young or new lesbians might have--and accomplishes her goal effectively. She does this with integrity, great insight, sincerity as well as a generous dose of sometimes scathing humor."
~KIWI Club Reviews
A great gift for emerging lesbians, curious lesbians and any other
lesbian who wishes to find and maintain quality relationships, while
avoiding the usual pitfalls of online dating, real-time dating,
commitment, and intimacy.
CHAPTERS:
The Contradictory Art of Being Lesbian
The New Art of CyberCruising
The Lost Art of Dating
The Applied Art Of Relationships
The Dubious Art of Keeping it Together,
When It's Falling Apart
The Stolen Art of Sexual Prowess |
Quotes from ISO:
"Good communication is less about saying what you mean, and more about
defining what you say. So often, the communication issues that arise are
directly due to the many permutations of what we mean when we say the same
thing. All of us have filters in our brains. These filters are created
as a product of so many things-our understanding of the world and our place
in it, our upbringing, our experiences, our metabolic makeup, our personalities,
the way we process information."
~
"One of these days, I'm going to place an ad like this, and see if
I get any responses:
I'm not down to earth, but am unstable, flighty and undependable. I hate
the beach and fresh air of any kind. Cuddling is abhorrent to me, as is
cooking, exercise, healthy food and spending time with most people. I prefer
to be alone. I am looking for a woman who will support me financially,
give me sex whenever I want and be okay with the poontang I bring home.
I will need my own room. I worship Satan, believe in human sacrifice, chew
aluminum foil, and have several pet scorpions."
~
"If you take reasonable precautions and the time to get to know a
potential partner, then it's all good. Which is another cogent argument
for dating the old fashioned way. In yesteryear, they did it because they
were innocent and naïve; today, we should do it because we're knowledgeable
and smart."
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