(Now--watch portions of this work in the videobook version,
at bottom of this page)

"A primer for young or simply curious lesbians who wish to have good dates, quality relationships, and great sex. Written with humor, intelligence, a sense if integrity, and plenty of 'field research' from the author. A great gift for emerging lesbians, curious lesbians and any other lesbian who wishes to find and maintain quality relationships, while avoiding the usual pitfalls of online dating, real-time dating, commitment, and intimacy." ~KIWI Club Reviews

Excerpts:

"If you take reasonable precautions and the time to get to know a potential partner, then it's all good. Which is another cogent argument for dating the old fashioned way. In yesteryear, they did it because they were innocent and naïve, today, we should do it because we're knowledgeable and smart."

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"Good communication is less about saying what you mean, and more about defining what you say.

So often, the communication issues that arise are directly due to the many permutations of what we mean when we say the same thing. All of us have filters in our brains. These filters are created as a product of so many things-our understanding of the world and our place in it, our upbringing, our experiences, our metabolic makeup, our personalities, the way we process information."

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 One of these days, I'm going to place an ad like this, and see if I get any responses:

 "I'm not down to earth, but am unstable, flighty and undependable. I hate the beach and fresh air of any kind. Cuddling is abhorrent to me, as is cooking, exercise, healthy food and spending time with most people. I prefer to be alone. I am looking for a woman who will support me financially, give me sex whenever I want and be okay with the poontang I bring home. I will need my own room. I worship Satan, believe in human sacrifice, chew aluminum foil, and have several pet scorpions."